- Daddy Issues: Daddy & DD/lg Dynamics & YOU!
- Did Someone Chap Your Hide? - Caring for your Leather Toys & Gear
- Down the Hatch! - "Encouraged" Intoxication
- Edge of Glory: Prostate Milking & Cock Edging Techniques
- Erectile Artistry: Taking Delicious Dick Pics
- Erotic Energy Exchange
- Fatal Follicles: Hair Pulling for Harlots!
- Gender Affirming Intimacy
- Get This Party Started! - Event Hosting & Community Organizing
- Holy Cow! Intro to Hucow & Bovine Play
- "Love You to Death - Homicide Roleplay for Horndogs"
- Identity Autonomy: Owning Your Body & Story
- My New Skin: Adapting to a New Body
- Pigs in Blanket: Intro to Piggy Play
- Pretty in Pink: Sissification & Gender Affirmation
- Protocols & Rituals: Focusing Intentions in D/s
- Sacred Leathers: Spirituality & Leather
- Switchinatrix - Harnessing Your Power as a Switch
- So Fresh & So Clean: Bootblacking & Leather Care 101
- Welcome to the Jungle: Pet Play for All Animals
- What's on Your Mind? The Difference between Reactive, Predictive & Proactive Service
Daddy Issues: Daddy & DD/lg Dynamics & YOU!
60 - 90 Minutes Upon Request
Learn about Daddy Dynamics in this workshop dedicated to the Daddy who understands from the inside & out (& it's not just because their fist is inside me).
What are Daddy Dynamics? A Daddy dynamic is a relationship or short-term play where one player is "Daddy" & typically plays a parental or semi-nurturing type figure within the scene or short to long-term dynamics.
"Daddy" dynamics are HIGHLY modular to the people involved & the interests in their preferred types of play. Daddies can be scary sadists to submissive sweethearts who want to please their Princex, Princes, & Princesses. Daddy Dynamics can be everything from light & fluffy to dark & demented...maybe even a mix of both depending on your tastes!
In this class, we'll dive into:
- Figuring out what kind of archetype resonates with you as a Daddy or finding the right Daddy(s)
- Figuring out what type of dynamic works best (ex. Daddy Dom/little, Princex/daddy sub, etc.) Pickup play or short-term dynamics & integrating
- Daddy elements into play Keeping things fresh & healthy in long-term Daddy dynamics
- How to heal after a dynamic has ended Including others into dynamics such as other submissives, Princexes, & other Care Givers.
- How any gender can be "Daddy" & what it means to be "Daddy" to someone
Did Someone Chap Your Hide? - Caring for your Leather Toys & Gear
60 - 90 Minutes Upon Request
Our toy bag is sacred. Each whip, flogger, & paddle holds memories & future stories. Furniture, like leather slings, or toys such as singletail whips, floggers, and gags can be udderly ridiculous to clean.
Don't let your flogger feel like the laughing stock of your toy bag. We'll effectively clean them without butchering the suede underside and also clean leather on gags (without using potentially toxic chemicals).
This class is meant to beef up knowledge about the preservation of leather and is for folx who have never cleaned leather or are veteran bootblacks.
OPTIONAL: After the class, there will be a brief workshop where you will work on your leather hands-on with the instructor. It is BYOL (Bring Your Own Leather). Synthetic leathers are welcome!
Down the Hatch! - "Encouraged" Intoxication
70 - 120 Minutes Upon Request
I smoke two joints in the morning, I smoke two joints in the dungeon...
Join Lady V for this informative & intoxicating class on "Encouraged" Intoxication! "Encouraged" Intoxication is a type of play where two consenting adults get the other to consume mind altering substances.
Imagine... turning your lover into a limp play toy, or being so blissed out as you play.
This class will mainly be covering marijuana, poppers, alcohol, & mushrooms....& even caffeine!
Featuring:
- Encouraged inhalation & liquid consumption
- Using funnels, masks, & even panties...
- Negotiation around planning, safety, & tolerances
- Creating consent framework around play & CNC (Consensual Non-Consent)
- Planning & executing smoky scenarios including somnophillia, dronification, & more!
DISCLAIMER: Lady V will only be discussing substances that are legal in the state she resides in. Lady V does NOT endorse any non-consensual play or unethical/irresponsible consumption of substances of any kind. Lady V will NOT be talking about how to procure any substances.
Edge of Glory: Prostate Milking & Cock Edging Techniques
70 - 120 Minutes Upon Request
Who says you need udders to get milked like a cow?
We’re on the edge of an orgasm with this class on everything to do with edging & finding the great prophesied prostate!
Edging, a term to describe stimulating someone’s genital close to orgasm but not allowing them to cum is a great way to tease a partner into having an extremely powerful orgasm…or even torture them by endlessly not cumming (or even “ruining” their orgasm).
Join Lady V, professional dominatrix & anal enthusiast on how to dip your fingers into learning about the art of prostate milking, a very powerful technique to bring someone to an orgasm with them even getting remotely erect.
In this class, we'll dive into:
- Finding one’s “P-Spot”
- How to stimulate prostate with a light & heavy touch
- Angles & positions to get the best angle
- Edging someone’s cock without touching them (yes, seriously)
- How to simultaneously use a mix of prostate stimuli & edging
NOTE: This class is accessible to all genders & roles. We will however be focusing on mostly penis owners & AMAB bodies (Assigned Male at Birth).
Erectile Artistry: Taking Delicious Dick Pics
60 - 90 Minutes Upon Request
Lights, camera, erection! Learn how to take good pics of your front bits! Please note, this class is accessible to AMAB bodies such as cis men, trans femmes, gender expansive friends!
Join former movie producer turned dominatrix, Lady V, in making your bits look their best! Penises can be so much prettier if you just didn't shoot them straight down your belly with all of your trash on the floor in the background. Mmm is that month old Taco Bell?
Explore concepts around:
- Consent around sensitive photos & asking to send theme
- Learning what angles look best for your body.
- How to use clothing to your advantage.
- Using your environment to tell a story.
- Not letting perfectionism get in the way!
Don’t have a Nikon Z 8? No worries! We’ll be exploring the art of using your phone (aka your pornography rectangle). This class supports all body types, sizes, abilities, & people who own AMAB genitalia (aka penises, girlcocks, bits, & or more)!
Erotic Energy Exchange
60 - 90 Minutes Upon Request
This ain't your reiki healer's energy play class... Erotic Energy Exchange covers the different types of energy, where energy comes from, the science behind it, & how to protect yourself from energetic vampires.
We all feel energy even if we aren't aware of it. Energy helps us feel other's emotions, & move chemicals through our bodies. Learn how to move energy between you & your partners to incorporate into your mental, emotional, & physical intimacy. In this class we will explore:
- What energy is & the types of energy.
- Different ways to exchange & move energy with a partner.
- Applying energy exchange to sex & kink
- Creating intention for deeper connection & bonding with a partner
- Protecting yourself from intrusive energy & ethically playing with energy
Fatal Follicles: Hair Pulling for Harlots!
60 - 90 Minutes Upon Request
This ain't your reiki healer's energy play class... Erotic Energy Exchange covers the different types of energy, where energy comes from, the science behind it, & how to protect yourself from energetic vampires.
We all feel energy even if we aren't aware of it. Energy helps us feel other's emotions, & move chemicals through our bodies. Learn how to move energy between you & your partners to incorporate into your mental, emotional, & physical intimacy. In this class we will explore:
- What energy is & the types of energy.
- Different ways to exchange & move energy with a partner.
- Applying energy exchange to sex & kink
- Creating intention for deeper connection & bonding with a partner
- Protecting yourself from intrusive energy & ethically playing with energy
Gender Affirming Intimacy
Can be taught in an educational and/or professional setting as well.
120 - 180 Minutes Upon Request
Gender dysphoria is when someone has an emotional or physical feeling that feels misaligned with their gender identity. Gender Affirming Intimacy is a workshop geared towards helping ourselves, partners, or other loved ones experience the opposite of dysphoria, gender euphoria!
We'll explore how positive, gender-affirming physical, emotional, & mental intimacy can make ourselves or others feel more aligned with their beautiful, authentic selves.
We'll achieve this by covering:
- Learning terminology around Trans bodies
- Identification of the multiple forms of intimacy
- Creating euphoria through affirming language
- Adapting to different forms of sexual & non-sexual touch
- Finally, towards the end of this class, we will help you develop your own “Gender Affirming Profile” or navigate helping a trans partner create their own Gender Affirming Profile!
Gender non-conforming people may also benefit from pieces of this to create their own unique Gender Affirming Profile. People who are not familiar with trans bodies or terminology are also encouraged to attend. We are here to educate without stigma! Please note this class is GREAT for partners of trans people & trans people alike!
Get This Party Started! - Event Hosting & Community Organizing
90 - 120 Minutes Upon Request
BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE IN YOUR COMMUNITY.
Community building is a vital part of keeping our various sex-positive, kink, and queer communities connected and help them to heal and stay hopeful! Your voice and actions can create a unique, moving experience. YOU can create the space you want in your community. Holding space for others is a joy and a gift like no other.
Learn the ins & outs of event organizing!
- Identify your target demographic and how to serve them best
- Manage personal and community conflict pragmatically
- Promotion, advertising, & cross-collaboration
- Ticketing systems & event pricing
- Outlining expectations between you, the venue, volunteers, and performers
- Plan for accessibility and how to handle inaccessible spaces
- Establish your boundaries around personal life and power imbalances
- Identifying IF organizing is your cup of tea or how you can better support organizers
- Harm reduction & mitigation
- Burnout and how to recover & finding grace in making mistakes
Whether you're an experienced munch organizer or a fresh face wanting to throw their first kinky house party, this workshop will be helpful for YOU!
Why get into organizing?
THOUSANDS OF REASONS, including creating long-lasting communal bonds, mutual aid, or wanting to have a fun, sexy party (*your way*)! Organizing is a fun way to bring people together, create fun events, and *occasionally* pay your bills doing it!
Holy Cow! - Intro to Hucow & Bovine Play
90 - 120 Minutes Upon Request
Discover ways to create a unique headspace, explore multiple roles, implement many forms of play, & learn about multiple milking methods to fill you with udder pleasure!
Cowboys/girls & cows have become all the rage in fashion & even in the bedroom. This class gives ideas on how to rocket into udder space.
We’ll steak out the multiple ways we can nurture our inner cow or bovine by:
- Getting deeper into Bovine Headspace
- Breast & chest torture & nipple stimulation
- Lactation induction & STI safety around lactation
- Navigating what types of pumps or milkers to use!
- Diving into top & Handler roles (such as Farmer, Rancher, gulps or Butcher).
- Bovine play as a masculine, male, or gender non-conforming person
- & so much MOO-re!
The class also discusses the different types of dynamics involved in cow-centric pet play. Top, bottom, switch, hucow, bull, ox, farmer, butcher, or just curious, this class is for you! Join us, chew the cud, & love your cow. Built-in mind to be inclusive of any gender identity. Be seen and also herd.
TW: Includes sexual content, AMAB genitalia, concepts around CNC, & mentions of ancestral trauma, misogyny, & genocide
Identity Autonomy: Owning Your Body & Story
90 - 120 Minutes Upon Request
Identity is the story of us: who raised us, the environment that shaped us, who we are on the inside, and the emotions we feel. Identity can be expressed through the way we dress, what we eat, and how we get down and dirty in the bedroom.
Identity Autonomy is all about embracing your "inner rockstar". Finding the courage to be your loudest, proudest self through embodying your favorite pieces of yourself.
There may have been a time in your life someone has made you feel like you aren't visibly queer enough, a disability isn't valid, or your gender identity is not "real". All of these can hurt, but we have ways of taking back the harm when we feel identity invalidation or erasure.
In this class, we'll:
- Explore moving past social norms to fit your own needs
- Learn how you can support other's identity autonomy & advocate for your own
- Dive into how sensuality and sexuality can be exploratory and expressive to the narrative of self we build for ourselves
"Love You to Death - Homicide Roleplay for Horndogs"
90 - 140 Minutes Upon Request
DISCLAIMER: Lady V is not advocating or educating any real form of bodily harm or violence against anyone. This workshop is equivalent to a haunted house & only entails SIMULATED homicide roleplay just as you would see theatrically. Please talk to someone if you are having real feelings of violence or suicidal thoughts.
The thrill of the "kill" can be the hottest moment of a scene. Getting on top of your victim like helpless prey waiting to be eaten as a mouse is to a very big cat...ready to put your fangs into them like a vampire can be a very hot scene.
We'll be exploring what motivates erotophonophilic fantasies (aka "sexually aroused motivated homicide") & the opposite, autassassinophilic fantasies ("aka sexually aroused fantasies of being killed").
"Love You to Death" dives into ideas around Perpetrator/victim dynamics from both sides of the slash. Lady V will walk you through how to care for emotional health; create sexy, scary, sensational scenes; & use catharsis as a tool.
This workshop includes:
- Creating negotiation frameworks around emotional and physical safety
- Using a variety of implements from oven bags for simulated suffocation, to knives, prop guns, and whatever suits your sadomasochistic needs.
- Aftercare and healing from a trigger, should it happen.
- Incorporating other types of play including ravishment, breath play, degradation, and SO MUCH MORE.
My New Skin: Adapting to a New Body
60 - 90 Minutes Upon Request
When one undergoes a gender, age, or weight change journey or faces new challenges around a physical ability, they may suddenly experience a shift in how the world treats them. This experience of being newly "othered" can often be jarring & isolating.
Join Lady V in talking about lessons learned in her own gender, weight loss, and aging journey. This class unpacks how to embrace changes to your body while getting through judgmental societal norms. We'll talk about how to navigate new challenges & deal with grief. This class is also great for those supporting someone through a body change journey or who are curious about their own.
Please note that this class does not embrace or tolerate any sort of phobia. We only embrace body positivity in all forms.
Pigs in Blanket: Intro to Piggy Play
75 - 90 Minutes Upon Request
We're pulling the pork on the pinkest of pet players, Pigs! While catching bad wraps from multiple cultures, pigs are intelligent, loving, & also filthy animals.
Don't muddy the details (just the hog)
- Learn how to build a narrative to keep you or your hog in heat
- How to use Piggy Play to overcome body shaming & food aversion
- Using humiliation & degradation as rewards
- Building headspace through costumes, toys, & scenarios.
- Putting your snout into uninhibited sex positivity
Whether you have just one or 30-50 feral hogs in your pen, we've got you covered! This class is excellent for both Pigs & their handlers.
Pretty in Pink: Sissification & Gender Affirmation
75 - 90 Minutes Upon Request
For many other gender expansive folx & femmes, sissification & forced feminization can be a safe outlet to explore, as well as affirm our gender identity. Playing with forced feminization & sissification allows for the possibility of positive reinforcement of our femme identity.
This class navigates sissification within a healthy, gender affirming light. We will discuss ways to affirm your gender while playing with high femme energy while avoiding negative or phobic tropes.
Protocols & Rituals: Focusing Intentions in D/s
75 - 90 Minutes Upon Request
Protocols and rituals can be additional tools for focusing intention and energy for all types of dynamics. They are also great tools for staying engaged and connected in and out of scene.
How many times do we kiss our partner(s) mindlessly as we run out the door, our minds already on our next venture? Often in our busy lives, finding a moment to connect with our partner(s) can be difficult and can create emotional and spiritual distance. Protocols and rituals assist us to stop, focus our energy and be in the moment, whether alone or connecting to and appreciating our partner.
This class will help inspire your own unique protocols and rituals for current and future dynamics. This class is inclusive to all dynamics (especially the non-conventional rebels). Protocols and rituals can assist in strengthening connection within your own dynamics.
Sacred Leathers: Spirituality & Leather
90 - 120 Minutes Upon Request
Often our leathers have deep and meaningful stories spanning beyond our initial introduction and we, as the wearers, are a part of that garment's story. This class looks at how we all can uniquely celebrate, channel, and conjure that beautiful energy with our second skins.
- Explore various connections & beliefs around leather
- How leather can tell our stories, be our emotional & spiritual armor
- Using leather implements to be an energetic conduit
- Various rituals & ways we can honor our own & others’ leathers
- & so much more!
This class is geared towards collaborative spiritual perspectives and is meant for everyone, not just bootblacks & leather identified people!
Service Styles: Reactive, Predictive & Proactive Service
75 - 120 Minutes Upon Request | (Formerly titled: “What's on Your Mind? The Difference between Reactive, Predictive & Proactive Service”)
Learn how to be a mind-reader! Sort of! Dive into ways we can better serve the needs of our partners. Service is a way for us to feel utilized & engaged within the dynamic without a whole big scene.
This class goes beyond preparing a morning cup of coffee (but we appreciate it), but also anticipating the laundry needs to be done and then doing it without being told. We’ll explore:
- Differentiating the differences between the types of service
- Exploring what style or combination works best for you & your dynamics
- How these forms of service can be implemented in a realistic & adaptable way
- Avoiding the pitfalls of non-committal service for tops & bottoms
- & so much more!
This is all about how we can serve the needs or expectations of our partners by staying attentive to their daily needs, wants & desires. This is a one-size-fits-all guide to making service thrive within your dynamics.
Often, the monotony & hecticness of everyday life can be distracting from focusing on the moments that matter the most with the people we care for. These workshops are great for unpartnered & partnered people. This educational intensive is accessible to both D-types, s-types, & everyone in between!
So Fresh & So Clean: Bootblacking & Leather Care 101
60 - 90 Minutes Upon Request
Who doesn't lust over the shine of a well-polished boot that catches the light and catches your eye? Leather pieces are an investment that has the ability to last for a long time...with proper care.
In this class, we'll teach you the staples of making your leathers look luscious and last. Learn the art of cleaning and caring for your leathers!
Bootblacking (aka leather care, shoe shining, etc.) can be a meditative practice, an act of appreciation, a form of worship, an art form, a practice of technique, a side hustle, a spiritual practice, or all of the above!
Featuring:
- Discerning between different types of leather
- How to apply soaps, conditioners, polishes, & more!
- The long-term benefits of cleaning & care leather
- How to select the products you’d like to use
- & MORE!
Learn how to easily clean and care for any pair of boots, whip, or even some sexy chaps! We'll also show you how to discern between oil tan and polished leather and how to treat them appropriately.
OPTIONAL: After the class, there will be a brief workshop where you will work on your leather hands-on with the instructor. It is BYOL (Bring Your Own Leather). Synthetic leathers are welcome!
Switchinatrix - Harnessing Your Power as a Switch
90 - 120 Minutes Upon Request
Switchinatrix is a class that is an exploration into authentically celebrating your “unconventional” self to enjoying kink & intimacy from every angle! Being switchy or versatile allows us to have so many different roles & experiences! Why be just a Top when you can be EVERYTHING (or whatever you want to be)?
This class helps us manifest & embody our power as switches in being able to get the most out of our relationships, dynamics, & sex lives by going into:
- Switching within relationships & power exchange dynamics
- Exploring different headspaces & personas
- Switching simultaneously with partners
- Breaking down & moving past stigma in the community & dating
- & so much more!!
We will discuss how these expansive roles can work within our TPE dynamics & relationships & how we can fulfill the different needs of partners & ourselves...like switching with your Domme (scary, I know. You'll survive & thrive!).
This class is aimed at people in all roles & dynamics, not just our switchy friends & partners.
Welcome to the Jungle: Pet Play for All Animals
75 - 120 Minutes Upon Request
Take a trip through the Animal Kingdom as we explore the multiple ways we can nurture and celebrate ours, or a partner(s) animalistic side!
This class is a Pet Play 101, inclusive of all animals! Whether you're a domestic kitty, a cool cow, or a lazy lizard, we've got you covered!
We'll explore the basics of pet play and how to help build an easy-to-enact, immersive headspace unique to your own inner animal and dive into the possible dynamics within pet play. This class is meant to inspire pets and handlers alike to cultivate their personas & find the headspace they seek!
Contact Lady V to request a class!
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